Showing posts with label public speaking. Show all posts
Showing posts with label public speaking. Show all posts

Tuesday, December 24, 2019

Sad and Gay URLs


Cheerful Note: This is the closest I’ve ever come to a “Merry Christmas!” gift post.

Note on links: For this post, in my mellow mundane life, I surely have plenty of time to place super-quick (for you) colored links, but no-o-o-o. I have NO desire to offer links on a silver platter, and no felt need to encourage search engines (SEO) to find me. 
(As explained in No Links is Good Links archived July 2012)

Hello Reader,
Got gay links?


I once did an essay on bringing “brights” into work and play, such as sneaking a rubber fish into the water cooler, called Brights in a Grey Life, archived December 2013.

Similarly, sometimes I like to brighten my posts at the end by footnoting a link. Most of my foot-links are gay, some are grey. 

In order to easily find my links again, I have slowly gathered most of them to this one blog page, trying to group similar links together. I thought you might like this post, so I have added some partial explanations. 
(Complete explanations would be found in the original essays)

Of course, the comforting moon has a dark side, and some of the links are darkly sad. An example would be this top link, 
(I assume you know to copy and paste into your search or website header)
a lengthy news article, complete with photographs, about an award-winning teen hero, who is bullied

Homeland Songs
Charlotte Church sings I Vow to Thee My Country

The Pogues sing Dirty Old Town

Billy Bragg sings Jerusalem

Billy Bragg sings A Full English Brexit song (a pun on ‘full English breakfast,’ as distinguished from a ‘small continental breakfast’)

At the Edinburgh Fringe Festival, 
Pictures of Road Signs, hacked by an artist
https://www.bbc.com/news/uk-scotland-edinburgh-east-fife-46139025

Doctor Who, three songs without a chorus
In a tune, the purpose for having a chorus is like why the 6 o’clock TV news has an anchor: For the comfort of returning to something known. Mornings while shaving, I like to hear three lyrical videos in succession. Because these songs don’t have a “proper” chorus, and are repetitive too, they might seem boring to you. 
But not to me, not when I am deeply moved by the episodes the songs are from.

  1. Abigail’s Song, a live stage version by an opera singer
  2. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bVGilpd0e4s

(… And for my preferred version of Abigail’s Song that does show the plot

(2) in Latin, here’s the song the gentle Ood sing for the tenth doctor to “sing him to sleep” at the end of his story.

(3) “The Long Song” with still photos from the episode where religious people sing. Their song had been constantly sung for generations…

The sad, defiant words on screen at the end were by the doctor, “nothing left, only me,” as the last of his kind. He’s “the last” because he killed his entire home planet—men, women and children—to save the universe from the Daleks. Hence he is not quite sane. He often tries to have human companions with him so he doesn’t go totally mad… and also to make sure he doesn’t become emotionally closed off and dead to the universe. Song link:

Songs On Stage
On stage, a seasoned Jonie Mitchel (Companion of the Order of Canada) sings Both Sides Now
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tKQSlH-LLTQ

At the proms, Dame Judy Dench sings Send in the Clowns

At the proms, from War of the Worlds, two very powerful songs, with some narration by Sir Richard Burton

*** *** Start Doctor Who *** ***

Context for award-worthy Speech clip:
War is grim: Earlier in space and time is the War Doctor, played by John Hurt. In his life where he destroys his home planet, he is never given a number because his later incarnations want to forget they were ever him. He once met Doctors 10 and 11 together: “the one who regrets and the one who forgets” (the number of children present on that final day)

Speech clip, four minutes, (filmed in one take)
With his war doctor background, one of the most powerful speeches is by the 12th doctor, the “Zygon Inversion speech,” where the Zygon in human guise, Bonnie, symbolizes all sorts of violent revolutionaries… including Quebec FLQ “pure wool” separatists who won’t admit (according to former Prime Minister Pierre Trudeau) 
that other Quebecers, not “pure wool,” would some day want to separate from Quebec in turn. 

I grew up hearing periodic tests of atomic air raid sirens: During the speech clip, two horrible opposing boxes, set up by the doctor, symbolize the “The Button” of the cold war, as well as symbolizing every “go/no go” point of “peace/or war.” 


Regarding the episode and the speech:

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I think this episode was broadcast at just the right time; following the Paris Attacks and on the day before Remembrance Sunday. With so much talk of revolution and vengeance, something like this hits home.

*** *** End Doctor Who *** ***


Youtube songs
England swings. The song that starts, “Pendulum swings like a pendulum do, bobbies on bicycles two by two,”
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ip6pHbAmjiU

Music Video by Winnipeg’s Crash Test Dummies
Mmm mmm mmm mmm 

Music video, Superman’s Song

For isolation, a Simon and Garfunkel song
 
One-page funeral article on a very small service for a writer once very well known, Eric Nicol
https://bcbooklook.com/2012/09/16/authors-remembering-eric-nicol/

Speech, impromptu, with music, by Robert (Bobby) Kennedy, on the night Martin Luther King was murdered.

Special note: Even in our 21st century, I can still feel sad from knowing that if Senator Robert Kennedy had lived, and become president, then he would have got us out of Vietnam. Swiftly. Without any patience for stupid well-meaning excuses about how hard and lengthy it would be to extricate such a mass of men and material.

Note: a John Denver song includes the lines, “and your mother called last Friday, Sunshine made her cry;” the music from the movie Sunshine is used under the above speech. I think the film was first shown on TV, but I forget, it was all so long ago. I read the book, back in the day.

Song, of Abraham, Martin and John

Lengthy blog page about a lonely “digital nomad” world traveler, to which I linked for the sake of a small quote about belonging, near the end.
https://www.fluentin3months.com/vagabond/

Anya, with no last name:
The four video links here are in my essay, Anya, Friend of Buffy 
(But I should have called it Death of Anya to get hits and match my Death of Buffy piece) 
where I explain WHY Anya fears bunnies, and why that fear leads to her friend Buffy fighting her with a sword.

Note: Anya was born human, and is finally human again, but after being a vengeance demon for about a millennium, she has forgotten mortality, hence her monologue:
Anya, ‘death of Joyce’ monologue
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MZ96c7IOIPQ 

Very short light Song, of Anya’s paranoia of bunnies
 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YLMaSII_URU

Light Duet, by Anya and her live-in fiance “I’ll never tell”
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ooD4mmmYrTg

Anya’s cheery upbeat death song, from living with her fiancĂ©, reminding us that after many horrible centuries, she finally had a happy life, with dreams.

Drama clip, 
Buffy the Vampire Slayer, from just outside the doorway, overhears the two grown men in her life, her librarian father-figure and her vampire boyfriend-figure, state the grim, iron prophecy that she is to be killed. So she goes into shock, laughing an unnatural laugh.

(Incidentally, my most popular essay, by hit count, is Death of Buffy from January 2012

Youtube
Bonnie Rae, with Bruce Hornsby
I can’t make you love me, if you don’t

Sting, from a few years before the Berlin Wall ‘came a-tumbling down’:
Russians (“What can I do to save my boy, from Oppenheimer’s deadly toy?”)
(Note for nonChristian readers: The “tumbling down” phrase comes from a rousing spiritual song, which I memorized as a boy, where “fought” is pronounced as “fit”: Joshua fit the battle of Jericho, and the wall came a-tumbling down.)

Lengthy essay with photographs. A writer who has been to Dachau takes his daughter to see an empty old missile silo and talks to her on the drive back, without meaning to scare her.
http://whatever.scalzi.com/2007/12/21/a-month-of-writers-day-seventeen-jay-lake/

News Story, interview on television
London Marathon staff being abusive to slower runners
https://www.bbc.com/news/av/uk-48130690/london-marathon-pacesetter-says-slower-runners-abused-on-course

Trailhead for news stories, where a pretty young actress, who has lived all her life in her dear mother country of Taiwan, on the island of Formosa, hopes her country would never be annexed by big China, not like how big Germany did an Anschluss of Austria.  
(The annex was during the Third Reich; Austria, with its German-speaking culture, regained independence after WWII) 
The link was made regarding ideology in an essay on how to hack together a speech.


Prose, read aloud 
British Actor David Tennant, in his own voice, reads his forward to the autobiography of actress Elizabeth Sladen, better known worldwide as Sarah Jane Smith. Takes six minutes and has lots of stills. “She inspired absolute devotion from everyone who worked with her.”

Lengthy Open Letter to Brazil, calling on Brazilians to reform because of shortcomings including
(—but my lawyer insists I add ‘but not limited to’ because he says you might not know what the word “including” means—)
the sort of “amoral familism” we see (or once saw) in southern Italy, but not in northern Italy.

Youtube of a lengthy memorial at my club for Michael Cody DTM
For ease of download by dial-up, my blog has no bells or whistles, no photographs of me. But as for what I look like: Near the end that’s me on camera asking about Michael’s belt.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jGLC5VizmSk&feature=em-upload_owner


Sean Crawford
Calgary,
Merry Christmas readers,
2019

Footnotes:
~Today’s blog has a lighter page of URL’s. You may have seen the “heavier, darker” sequel to this post which was archived back in September 2019.

~How queer, to think the “new, exciting” World Wide Web is no longer “new.” In fact, social media-wise, I have heard that Facebook is now only for the “older generation.” (People over 30) 

Back when the web was exotic, newspapers would feature reviews of URLs. 
(And I suppose even the folks with computers would have FOMO) 
It’s been years since they reviewed Internet sites. Now they only review video games.


Wednesday, August 21, 2019

My First Rerun


Hello Reader,
Got old blogs?

Remember when blogs were long, 
and comments were long too?

Here’s a rerun from January of 2010 to remind you, as foreshadowed in my recent Summer Blog Reflections (August 2019) essay,


From Joyce I learned to have what Gladys at toastmasters calls a "Seanism." ...


Nestled in the Canadian Rockies is Canada's Banff Centre for The Arts, a world-class summer school. There I once watched a dance class. The students, from all across Canada, were learning to do the move where people hurry across a room spinning as they go. "Hey, like on fame!" they said, referring to an opening credits scene of the old TV series. The trick is to pick a spot on the wall. Some of them veered off because they didn't keep focusing during every spin.

I was able to observe because I was visiting their instructor, my old college teacher, Joyce Grey. From her I had taken drama classes, and I had managed to get into her demanding Creative Movement class for theatre majors. Drama relates to movement because a drama class is not an acting class, and it requires no work on stage. Rather, drama is preparative growth, a no-audience Zen thing, which every actor takes. Joyce noted we students were learning to have "energy" and "concentration." Students begin the drama semester with doing nonverbal movement. An advanced drama class, I suppose, could include theatre sports, as on the recent Hollywood TV show, "Who's line is it anyway?" with Drew Carey.

The students in my classes, both drama and movement, frequently presented "movement studies," usually in teams. Immediately Joyce would criticize. She always began with, "That was good," or "Nice study" or something like that. I think Joyce saw her students as youthfully vulnerable. After presenting their team study they would be in terrible suspense— "Did we do OK?" A quick "That was fine" allows them to exhale and then follow the rest of the criticism.

Since graduation, down to the present day, my favorite method of giving criticism, for manuscripts and work meetings, is to cover three things: what worked, what didn't work, and how it could be better. For giving evaluations where people are more vulnerable, such as for public speaking, I might vary it by using the three things of the "sandwich technique": good stuff, bad stuff, and then good stuff.

Speech evaluations are an integral part of Toastmasters International, where for every speech there is an evaluator. But after the speech, and before the evaluation, we have a minute of silence. That's when members fill out their own special little mini-evaluation for the speaker, using a special little slip of paper. We call it a "love note." Remembering Joyce, I always start out writing "Nice speech" ... Even if I don't have anything else to say.

One day a fellow toastmaster, Gladys Sabayan, pointed out to the club that she had come to expect the "Seanism" of "nice speech" on her notes. I was pleasantly surprised— this reminded me that everything we do in life gets noticed, on some level.

Now I am wondering if my blog is being noticed. I'm not waiting to exhale, not when I'm a seasoned middle aged writer, but still, a simple "nice essay" comment would do me good.

Sean Crawford

Footnotes:
~Reminder: By clicking through "older posts" (at the bottom) you can find new essays not found on my old web site.

~Although it's totally and absolutely ignored in terms of comments, (sigh!) a popular related essay of mine, based on the monthly number of hits, (clicks) is Criticism and Professionals from March of 2010.

~Update: in my "taking stock" post of June 2013 I noted that blogs are fading in popularity—I expect no comments, I write for my own purposes.


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    Barbara SullivanFebruary 20, 2016 at 3:24 PM
    Nice essay! :-) My own philosophy on feedback is that the most useful comments are specific, tied-to-the-line reports on what a reader was seeing/feeling/thinking/relating to at that moment--in other words, useful feedback gives the writer a chance to take a little road trip through his/her work in the passenger seat of the reader's car. So it's all about information (not about judgment or even evaluation): what associations, questions, ideas arose along the road?
  • In this essay, I got to go to Canada (yay!) and simultaneously revisit childhood ballet lessons--something I have not thought about for decades--when you gave that spinning detail of focusing (or not) on a spot on the wall. I could feel my little toes cramped down in ballet slippers, could feel the disorientation of losing that focal point when spinning, which made me consider that there might be a metaphor at work here with regard to poise in chaotic times.
  • The second paragraph taught me about drama and acting studies, something I know nothing about despite having been married to an actor in one of my former lives. (He must have been one of the exceptions to the "no-audience Zen thing"; the only preparative ritual he practiced was to down a few swigs of mouthwash before going in to an interview). :-) His headstone reads "A fine actor, weather permitting." But the main effect of your story on me was a nostalgic rush about the importance of teachers: I could feel the subtext tenderness toward your own teacher and understand the impulse to visit her even if I didn't know the reason. I thought of the most important teacher in my life, and of how he affected my own teaching and remembered, again, how a single individual who believes is us before we can believe in ourselves can alter the course of our lives. The positive feedback of "Seanisms" is similarly affirming.
  • So yes, I agree that "everything we do in life gets noticed, on some level" even if we never hear about it. The way we relate to each other, including how we respond to students, actors, teachers, readers, and other writers, is what shapes the world.
  • P.S. I think it's also a good thing, from time to time, to ask for whatever we know will do us good! (At least my therapist keeps telling me so, although I steadfastly ignore her advice.) :-) So thanks for the role model on that, as well as for this insightful post.
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    Sean CrawfordFebruary 21, 2016 at 10:24 AM
    Nice comment!:-)
  • After I read your comment I went up to mine—now I get your opening. I had thought at first you were copying my comment on your blog yesterday.
  • I read in that order because I was reading out loud to my client.
  • I love how we writers are so interested in the world.
  • Regular folks would have done a short comment.
  • I will reply on your blog, but not just now, as my client and I are going shopping.